We all experience that.
We all know how hard can that be.
Each time you try to get up, you have lesser energy to and its even harder.
Having the correct mentality and a positive aspect of different things is going to hard but it is going affect you a lot.
Take a step back and reflect whether is it you suffering from a break up to pet loss/friend/family to your dreams and being who you are..
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When I was in one of my darkest moments, nobody was there to help me but only myself (even though sometimes I would still get that here and there, but I realise of the state im in and be like Nope nope, not going there!) And I sort of get out of there by myself and I am proud of it : ) It just proves that even if you got nobody, you still can make it through by yourself because you have you. Aw have you vomited yet?
Countless of self questioning, self doubt and sometimes in the spur of moment you do the wrong thing and ask yourself something that you would never do (negatively)
(Dont go all out to achieve something that you want. Some relationships isn't worth throwing away for the things that you want)
Because of that one or several times that you tried and didn't turn out as you would like to. I know very well of the fear of doing anything and everything and ending up doing nothing at all.
But after that?
Yea it definitely get me staying in my comfort zone but.... i didn't get to say what I want and I didn't get to do what I want.
Self confidence, believing dreams, positivity, overcoming anxiety/depression... so many other links that are connected to this , that they are so important I don't wanna squeeze everything in one single post.
Start a fresh , you dont have to rush anything this is not a marathon to see who reach the end first and most of time when you try to rush you end up stumbling, falling and not being able to catch up with everything you had done, and it might just as well be you have not done and learn nothing? Start with baby steps , slow and steady.
As you probably already heard before, be yourself dont be what others want you to be, you gotta spare yourself a thought because you are worth it. Do what you truely want to do. You ,when you are older would be so thankful that you did this now : )
Keep trying, it doesn't matter how many times you fall nor it must definitely be how many times you get up (to an extent) to get that achievement.
Even if you keep falling down, even if its a minute longer your standing than the last time you did, its still an achievement.
Nothing left to fight for? Nope, you have! Yourself : )
Waking up another day and expecting it to completely change isn't gonna work out if you do nothing. Do something to lead the life that you want to. Challenge yourself to do something different than what you usually do.
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I know there are so many other points that I have not covered and other perspective about this but this is what I got for now.
Hopefully it'll at least help at least one of you even just the slightest bit, then this post was worth it . It was a bit of a challenge for me to write about these sort of topic as I have never ever done this before,and its quite difficult for me to open up to telling (ooh and its probably all over the place because it nearly 2 in the morning here and my eyelids are dropping down every 5 sec, I would probably edit that when I wake up later today ) so many reasons that im debating whether should I post this but I know alot of people are feeling the same way as I did before and I want to help. I mean I hope that I help..
I should probably write this at the beginning of the post to give you a clear idea of why im writing this but I figured those who are willing to stay at the end , then this would apply to you more (Im guessing) Im not always sunshine and candies (yep i love those) hopefully this doesn't completely ruin the impression some of you guys have of me but this is part of who I am : )
If you have anything that you want to add on, or another perspective I would love to hear from you!<3 Have a great day!♡
All the best : )
